We did not have a "party" for say. On Oct 29, my mother and girlfriend had a "survivors" day. I had recieved the party package a week or two earlier, but I wanted this to be a day that both could enjoy. I had bought both of them a personal massager, b/c survivor night gowns, slippers, and a relaxation gift set from wal mart. I cooked my "girls" salmon with pesto (out of the cook book), salad, and a tasty drink (out of the book as well, but the name had fled my mind). Both girls got a pedicure, and foot massage. I had both small gift bags with the items I had bought and the gifts from the party pack. Needless to say, it was a night that both did enjoy, and will remember for ever. Oh and the slippers and gown came from the family dollar for 5$ each. so if any one else would like to give them they are not that expensive. THANKS SO MUCH BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS AND HOUSE PARTY AND ENERGISER